John’s family: I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through a similar situation and I was very helped by the hope that I found in the Bible in John 5: 28, which says, "Do not amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out". I am sending you a link with more information on this hope.
I remember seeing john come screaming up,the road on his motorcycle, jumping off and giving me the biggest hug and welcoming me into his family. He always had kind words, big hugs and kisses.
John Michael, you will be missed and Please know you are loved, my prayers are with all the family during this time. Love you